We are dedicated to providing a safe over 50 dating environment online for mature singles over fifty in South Africa. We have a dedicated customer support team, who check all new profiles & photos, to ensure they are real people with genuine motives for joining the site.As a result, we have quickly become one of the most trusted senior dating services on the internet.Here’s 10 things no one tells you about dating in your 50s. Men in their 50s like to complain They like to moan about the price of coffee in Starbucks, the parking, the traffic, the weather they had to fight through to get to the date…In other words, they’ve had to make the effort to see you.I’m no slouch: tall, trim, own my own business, nice guy to a fault. “L, you are kind, decent, funny, and attractive but I just don’t feel enough “electricity” (aka infatuation) so I’m going to have to end it.”The biggest obstacle I face it is meeting this expectation of “rock me to my soul connection” fantasy man that even they can’t explain.Whatever it is, apparently I don’t have enough of it. In thinking about it, I’m not even sure when they say that, it’s the real issue.The more guys you meet, the more depressing it becomes as you see a pattern emerging.
Nice, successful, decent people who find themselves single at this time in their life.These women have been emotionally abused, disappointed, betrayed and they are just so hard-wired to not get hurt again. By setting unattainable standards (fantasy man) they ensure they will never again let somebody close enough to them to hurt them again.But then, I only took one psych course in college……I like to keep things simple.I even met one recently who had just won her class in an Iron Man contest (basically a triathlon on steroids) for age 64-69.But there is a definite demographic shift going on when it comes to our relationships.