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Your partner should know when an outbreak is going to come on and then you would abstain from sex. I'm sure you already know this but cold sores are a form of the herpesvirus as well. As previous posters have said the other thread asking the same was really good and, I'd imagine, very helpful to someone in your position.
You should talk to him and ask questions, he should be open about everything. If you have any other questions I would be happy to answer them. I remember there were many replies that said they had been with their husband with herpes for years and through medication and avoiding sex when he can feel a breakout happening, they had never actually caught it from them. Good luck in whatever you decide to do. I have an extreme anxiety disorder, it wouldn't work for me.
As i single mom & finally opening the door for love. There is no reason to sleep with him right away, take your time and get to know him first.
I met the sweetest, nicest guy & recently he just told me he has herpes. If after that time you want to have a sexual relationship then use protection.