If you hook up with the town's gossip queen, people will know your penis size, your secret fetish, whether or not your middle toe is bigger than your big one, and how you like your coffee in the morning.Gossip is truly the lowest form of discourse, so don't be fodder for it.I spoke with her on the phone about why hookup culture is the only option on college campus and why the biggest losers are, surprisingly, young men.Your book is titled The End of Sex, but college students you spoke to seem to have plenty of sex—just not always in connection with meaningful relationships.
Sure, the lady may be all turnt up from a night of krumping or whatever (again: I don't go to clubs!
horny singles in your area.) But since women are the sex that's less inclined to serial killing and wearing chin-strap facial hair, we employ a bit more of a vetting process.
Most want to know that you're safe and normal and inclined to treat them like humans being So treat those first messages like a conversation with an amenable stranger in a club.
So whether you're new to the game of hooking up or an old pro, be sure to hook up in a way that keeps your bedroom free of any twerkers with hidden agendas and puts a smile on your face. Hooking up with friends automatically changes the dynamic of the friendship. And if you hook up with all your friends, who will listen to you talk about your hookups?
Never hook up with more than two friends from the same social circle.