INTJs’ dominant function is Introverted Intuition (Ni).
In order to better understand how INTJs approach dating and romantic relationships, it is necessary to consider the potential impact and implications of their four primary personality functions (Ni, Te, Fi, Se).
And while forming quick friendships and extensive connections may be the goal for some extraverts, for INFJs, this is not the point at all.
Due to their extraversion of Feeling (Fe), they can readily ingratiate themselves to others.
” “Why don’t you wear dresses more often (or at all)”? Occasionally, clues to this may arise in the dating phase with comments such as, “You are so much smarter than me”. If they feel that way that early, then they will certainly take the path of the pattern. They will never admit this, but this absolutely becomes the case.
In their friends, as well as their romantic partners, they seek intelligence (both intellectual and emotional), honesty, openness, and authenticity.
Rather, INFJs seek high quality, in-depth relationships.
Their ideal partner would take seriously the issue of personal growth and development—moral, spiritual, emotional, and psychological.
Despite their status as introverts, there is little the INFJ values more than quality conversation.