After spending a few days trying to adjust to the fact that the handsome co-leader of my small group was seven years my junior, I had just realized that he was actually eight years younger!
A question I receive often is, "How did you make the decision to date and marry a younger guy?
"Not everyone is down with the idea of dating outside of their age group, though.
An NYC reader shared that although she doesn't really date yet, a lot of men who express interest in her are in their 30s, which just feels weird.
Celebs date people wildly outside of their age group all the time (Mary-Kate Olsen, anyone?
), which can sometimes make big-age-gap couples seem totally normal.
I don't know why this one year made such a difference to me.
They may impugn the motives of the younger person ("Gold digger!
"), or imply that it's all about sex ("You sly devil, you!
Perhaps the best known are 68-year-old Michael Douglas and 43-year-old Catherine Zeta-Jones, who have bridged their quarter-century age gap to stand by each other through a long partnership (and some recent serious health scares).
Or look at 65-year-old Rolling Stones guitarist Ronnie Wood, who made 34-year-old theater producer Sally Humphreys his (third) bride in December 2012.